This paper is a book review of the volume Bărbatul și femeia. Imaginea unei polemici cu privire la echitatea de gen [The man and the woman. The image of a controversy over gender equity], authored by Iulian Apostu and Cristina Petrescu and published by Lumen Publishing House from Iași, Romania, in 2017. The book addresses issues like the psycho-social dynamic of the marital couple, the emancipation of women within the couple, solidarity and conflict between men and women, while placing the (...) debates at the crossroads of modernity and postmodernity, as social paradigms marking the couple’s formation, evolution and separation. (shrink)