Abstract
When obligations to work conflict with obligations to family, Confucians would generally counsel us to fulfill our family duties first. Professional careers are less important than our social duties, and profit‐seeking behavior, or materialist desires beyond a modest minimum can undermine our humanity. Daoists, while also profit averse, see work as potentially more important than social relationships. It is a realm in which we can discover our place in Way. Confucianism offers lucid and direct responses to the various questions raised by the work imperative. Daoists concur with the Confucian disdain for profit and wealth. Daoists find more promise in work in and of itself, not for what it might provide for our families or social relationships, but what it might offer each individual. Giving more time to work than to family might actually be good for some.