Abstract
Epicurean friendship begins in “utility”: the supplying of practical needs to others with an expectation of goodwill and assistance in return, with the trust that this exchange will continue throughout life by the habitual practice of the virtues. This reciprocal friendship is already a pleasure it creates feelings of security and regard from others. “Deeper friendship” and “affection,” involving shared pleasure in discourse and intimate companionship with an equal is consistently characterized by Epicurean writers as one of the greatest pleasures life has to offer. There is a third level, at which reciprocal friendship is no longer relevant or necessary: the friendships of the gods, who have no needs their friends could supply, and who are friends for pure pleasure and affection; it exists also among humans, with our happy memory of lost friends, where utility is past and affection is at last left to reign alone.